The critical-path foundation for the barge-in reflex. AdvisoryEvent is
the enum carried over a tokio mpsc from TapEngine to Reflex (brain →
FOB). ReflexMetrics is the observable surface. barge_in_flush is the
new AudioPipe trait method (default delegates to clear_playout_ring) —
the kill-now path that clears the ring AND drains rx_audio_out.
Task 1 of the slice-4 plan. Everything else depends on this landing.
Signed-off-by: opencode controller <controller@local>
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